WHAT I LOOK FOR IN A PARTNER

Well, hello! Are you a fabulous female with the gift of gab? Whether you’re in Chicago, NYC, Austin, Seattle, or anywhere else, you might just be the perfect partner-in-crime for this witty adventure! I'm the kind of person who won't settle for the usual relationship razzmatazz. Oh no! I'm all about building connections, baby! 

Let's kickstart this journey as friends, move on to a bit of short-term shenanigans, and if the stars align, we might just end up in the long term. Now, listen closely, because I've got a wild idea. How about we meet up in real life? Yup, I'm all for keeping things breezy and fun. We'll grab some dinner, share some laughs, and see where the universe takes us. Who knows, we could be sipping martinis on our wedding day or changing diapers together – the possibilities are endless! 

So, if you're up for a daring adventure, if you're into embracing the unknown, and if you're not afraid to let fate do its thing, drop me a line. After all, who needs clear-cut plans when you can let life surprise you? Let's make this ride a memorable one!

Simplified Qualities I’m Looking For:

• A punctual, promise-keeping, trustworthy wonder – that’s what I value!

• If we can make each other laugh, it’s a match made in comedy heaven. 😄

• Let’s try new things together – skiing, cooking, or whatever wild idea comes our way!

• No boring vibes here! Take pride in what you do, and let’s conquer the world together.

• Speak up – assertiveness is sexy. Share your opinions, and let’s work through disagreements.

• Self-awareness matters – know yourself, your quirks, and your dreams.

• Curious about the world? Let’s explore life’s mysteries and ask the big “why.”

• Fitness fanatic? Not required. But taking care of your body is non-negotiable – moderation is the name of the game!

• Physical intimacy is important – sex, cuddles, and maybe a little kink now and then!

• A tidy space makes for a happy space, even if we embrace some organized chaos now and then.

Complete Breakdown

• My ideal partner balances social energy and quiet moments:

  • They thrive in social settings by bringing warmth and authenticity to interactions, whether in lively gatherings or intimate groups. They’re comfortable with me being the life of the party when the moment calls for it but also value downtime to recharge and enjoy cozy moments together.

  • They can be fine with me being the life of the party when the situation calls for it, but they also value and enjoy downtime, appreciating cozy moments to recharge and relax together

  • I understand that everyone navigates social situations differently, and I value someone who is self-aware about their comfort zones. Connection is about quality, not quantity.

• I'm drawn to someone who faces challenges head-on and emerges stronger: 

  • They don't let hardships define them but use them to grow.  Their positive attitude in adversity is inspiring. 

  • They're reliable, trustworthy, and always keep their promises.  Punctuality and dependability matter to me, as they show respect for their time and others'.

• As a former Certified Sous Chef.

  • I have a deep passion for cooking and exploring cuisines. My ideal partner shares this enthusiasm, especially for Mexican and Asian flavors. It would be great to cook together, experimenting with new recipes and ingredients, while enjoying the process, laughter, and occasional kitchen mishaps.

• I'm looking for someone with a distinct sense of style: 

  • I love a mix of soft, muted colors for their subtle charm, and bold shades like black and red for making a statement. 

  • This balance shows confidence and a dynamic personality. It's about feeling good and expressing your unique self.

• Humor is key for me in a relationship: 

  • Humor is the glue that holds a relationship together. If we can make each other laugh and find joy in the little things, we’re off to a great start!

• I value a proactive partner—someone who suggests plans, keeps conversations lively, and shows genuine interest in building a strong connection: 

  • I'm looking for someone open to trying new things, like skiing, spontaneous road trips, or exploring new cuisines. 

  • Life's an adventure, and it's better with someone willing to dive into the unknown together.

• Communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship: 

  • I value someone open, honest, and eager for deep discussions.  Whether sharing dreams, fears, or daily experiences, open dialogue is key. 

  • I’m drawn to someone assertive, unafraid to voice opinions, even in disagreement.  Healthy disagreements help us grow and understand each other better.

• Self-awareness is key: 

  • I want a partner who understands their strengths, quirks, and dreams, and strives for growth.  This introspection is vital for personal development and a lasting relationship. 

  • I admire curiosity—someone who asks questions and seeks understanding.  Exploring life's mysteries together, through conversation, travel, or learning, excites me.

• I don't expect my partner to be a fitness fanatic, but self-care is important: 

  • A balanced approach to health—staying active, eating well, and caring for body and mind—is essential. 

  • Moderation is key. I'd love to share activities like walks, cooking healthy meals, or finding fun ways to stay active together.

• I’m looking for someone who values a tidy, organized space: 

  • A clean environment creates a calm, happy atmosphere. 

  • I get that life can get messy, and some organized chaos is fine. It’s all about finding the right balance.

• Physical intimacy is essential for me. I value closeness, whether cuddling or exploring our adventurous sides: 

  • Open communication about needs and desires is key to maintaining a healthy, affectionate relationship. 

  • Intimacy, both physical and emotional, builds a strong bond, and I’m open to exploring different aspects, including a touch of kink for added excitement.

• I'm drawn to someone curious about the world and its people, eager to learn and explore different cultures, ideas, and perspectives:  

  • A partner who shares my values, is politically engaged, and thoughtful would be ideal. 

  • Laid-back, easygoing, but passionate about what truly matters—a perfect companion.

• Excessive jealousy and possessiveness are red flags for me:  

  • Tension often stems from insecurity. I want someone who trusts me and our relationship without constant doubts about my loyalty.

• An unwillingness to compromise is a red flag for me:  

  • Relationships need balance and compromise. Insisting on one’s way or rejecting other perspectives hinders mutual respect and understanding.

• I want to avoid a partner who thrives on drama or constantly seeks excitement: 

  • A stable, peaceful relationship matters to me, and I prefer to avoid unnecessary conflicts or emotional rollercoasters.